How To Make Him Chase You Through Text In 4 Foolproof Ways
So you finally figured out a way to slyly pocket the digits of a new love interest. Now the question is, how do you make them chase you through text? Figuring out how to get the person you're into to frequently initiate texts and respond in a timely fashion can seem a lot harder than it actually is. All of the butterflies and borderline anxiety associated with having a new crush can frankly make acting semi-normal — let alone playing it cool — feel totally impossible. Thankfully, the most important parts of getting to know someone are less about your texting habits and more about showing off your best self. It can be hard to control how someone chooses to respond to communication via text, but it can definitely be a legitimate way of gauging their interest level.
Although I'm typically a believer of being yourself and texting someone whenever you feel like it, regardless of how it comes off, I do understand the urge to keep things mysterious. My only warning would be that once you start trying to manipulate someone via text, it's easy for things to backfire. Now that you've been warned, let's get down to the nitty gritty.
1. Observe Their Texting Habits
If you want to gain the upper hand, first things first, it is important to be observant in the early stages of text exchanges. Ask yourself, what kind of texter are they? Are they a lightening fast texter that is constantly blowing up your phone? Are they a confident texter who has no issues initiating conversations, but then leaves 20 minute gaps between responses? Do they initiate texts from time to tome and then once their bored drop out of the conversation? Before you can assess the best way of keeping someone's interest level high, you have to figure out what their baseline is.
2. Mirror Their Texting Style
Once you've established what kind of texting style they subscribe to, now it's time to give them a taste of their own medicine. In my opinion, the best way to encourage someone new to be super responsive via text without running the risk of too much game-playing is to observe their texting habits and then reflect those same habits back at them minus one.
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